幸福、快乐?


这部电影上映时我错过了,最近看了之后让我很感动。不知道你们看了吗?

大家都在追求幸福快乐,到底什么才是幸福、快乐呢?

我们所接触到的人与事塑造了我们对 “幸福、快乐“ 的定义,也使我们不断根据这所谓的”完美“来寻找自己的”幸福、快乐“。我想,我又怎么知道我所追求的 ”幸福、快乐“ 真的会让我幸福、快乐呢?那是不是一种虚幻的完美主义?又或许那是个能够符合身边朋友的”幸福、快乐“却不一定就是适合我的概念?

真的很复杂哦!

小时候买鞋子,父母常要我选没有鞋带的,因为又舒服,又整齐,又方便,不许花时间花精力去把鞋带绑好,又不需担心鞋带会松,或者绑不好会看来不美观。的确很有道理,父母的心意我也了解。可是,就因为这样,我虽然穿着要系鞋带的鞋子,却渴望拥有更容易穿的鞋子。并不是因为有鞋带的鞋子差,而是因为照理论来说,没有鞋带的鞋子确实不费心思,不需要下功夫,也能让我穿的舒服,穿的好看。那为什么要让自己多一事呢?

当大家认为简单,方便是好,我们也就不加思索的同意。可是如果仔细想想,需要花多一点时间的鞋带其实也不是那么的费劲。费劲也其实不是太大的问题。既然如此,又为什么要放弃鞋带已经绑好的鞋子呢?

真搞不懂。。。

每个人都抱着不同的完美理想,坦白说,有时我也不清楚自己抱着的理想是否适合我,是否会让我幸福、快乐。

人类的不知足往往让幸福和快乐从手指之间划过, 后知后觉只会让人充满失望,后悔和懊恼。

要知足哦!

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20 responses to “幸福、快乐?

  1. 平凡就是幸福。简单就是幸福。

    很多人为理想和金钱奔波也不是不对,可是往往为这些而努力忽略身边的友情和亲情不是我做人追求幸福的原则。你想,就算你拥有世界的富贵,可是没有身边的人和拟分享你的喜悦和成功,你会快乐吗?

    Regards,
    育平

  2. 很有意思的文章。也许,现在的孩子习惯了衣来伸手,饭来开口的生活,所以常常身在福中不知福。其实,我们应该知道,比起那些生长在战乱国家的孩子、无依无靠的孤儿等等,我们已经很幸福、很快乐。^^

  3. O-zaki Simizutoro

    Hi Joanne,

    This Movies i have seen already. the movies is Speaking in English.

    This Movies Quite nice, it is about don’t Regret when u don’t want to do the things that u wanted to do.

    Love Joanne

    🙂

  4. Hey Joanne
    Thanks for sharing. Haven’t watch this movie yet. Well, many times, we tend to ‘live the way we are asked to live’ or rather ‘we are shaped’ – most of the times then, the wiser elders know what is best for us and they are right most of the time. In this new age today, we can see that more parents are supportive of their young to pursue their dreams – eg superband, campus superstar competition.

    As for you, I am sure what you are pursuing now is something that you had wanted *envy (cos not all of us have the chance/oppty)…regardless if it is the right choice, you have been through it and the good memories will be with you …

    Yes, we all need to be contented in life, else we will feel v miserable. JIA YOU!

  5. hi joanne. will you be involve in the filming of 未来不是梦?it’s quite confusing yea. because some sources said you are involved but some said change to jessecca liu.

    do reply if you are free (:

    and i guess little nonya filming is ending soon?

  6. i watched the movie.. really sets the mind thinking…
    i guess we all have to learn a thing or two abt true happiness. whether it be the things we buy that satisfy our needs, or whether it’s just for pure pleasure..
    but its really amazing to see how people can still find happiness in the smallest things=)
    and yet how others can have the best of everything and yet still not be contented…

  7. I watched that show on HBO a few days ago… it gripped at my heartstrings too. The harsh reality of a bankrupt struggling to make life better for his young son… reminds me on how fortunate we are with what we have, and also on how we shouldn’t take our lives and fortunes for granted.

    You’re still in Penang, aren’t you? Or filming finished already?

  8. 微秀姐!
    你要加油哦!我会支持你最新的作品-小娘惹。

    Anyway, if you’re free do drop by to my blog too aye?
    lifelikethatyo.wordpress.com
    😀

    Lots of love!

  9. I like this movie very much. I did not watch it too when it launched, but managed to watch it onboard my flight on one of my biz trip …its really sad and touching, and he has so much determination to succeed, really really inspirational… Glad you enjoyed this movie too.

  10. 知足常乐是最大的幸福。
    身体健康是最大的财富。

  11. 正确的学习生活态度,不管过去的成败; 生活的不如意, 低潮总是会过去… 用最佳的心情面对,去找自己生活的方向- 就是一个快乐的人!!

  12. hey, i didnt know that you were part of the NEWater video. how old were you then? (:

  13. 知足常乐才是最大的幸福
    身体健康才是最大的快乐

  14. Hi Joanne,

    I’ve watched this movie and it brought tears to my eyes.
    It tests the temerity and tenaciousness of the dad thoroughly……….
    Other movies i would recommend to watch are The Cider House Rules (an orphan’s coming of age) and The World According To Garp (the world seen through the eyes of a naive man and his beliefs) Incidentally, both are based on novels by John Irving.
    Have a good rest upon your return from the hectic filming.

  15. Joanne,
    看到这篇文章,不禁想到我常喜欢说的一句话:
    人生中很多对与错,应该与不应该,美与仇,聪明与笨,幸福与不幸,都源自人的定义。在此刻,只要自己做着自己喜欢的事,读了很好的一本书,看了一场耐人寻味的电影,听到一首好歌,觉得心情很棒。此刻就是幸福。人生太短暂所以不可能会寻到那个完美的理想,永远的幸福。只要现在快乐就好。
    注:你的‘思潮起伏’总会提醒我们一些人生中应当是很重要的事,却总是被我们忽略掉的事。加油。

  16. O-zaki Simizutoro

    Hi Joanne,

    i heard the newspaper say that you Married Photo want to

    Become Bad, is that true

    Shin Min Daily News

  17. Hi, we are from Ourvoicebox.sg, a singapore chinese entertainment portal for youths. As we will be re-launching our web on 11Nov, we hope to link your blog under artistes. Do support us if you can. =)
    All the best to your new show, Nonya..

  18. hi nice to meet you are you going to act on other show ? i am eager to know more about you!!!hope to hear you soon

  19. The Pursuit of Happyness – one of my favourite films of all-time! I believe true happiness will be ours if we know how to appreciate our loved ones around us and the many little blessings and wonders life has given us e.g. being healthy and having people who care about you! And that’s why I love country music, it really is a celebration of life, love and the simple pleasures of life!

  20. 很感人:幸福在于自己

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