过去,现在,未来


今天早上在早报副刊里看见一篇文章,讲述一名老先生很着急的要医生帮他拆线,为的就是要赶去疗养院跟他患有帕金森氏病的太太吃早餐。结果拖了一点时间,护士问他太太不会担心吗,老先生答:“这五年来,她都不认得我了,我去不去,其实她也不知道。” 护士很惊讶,问他既然如此,怎么他还是每天准时赴约呢?他说:“她不认得我没关系,我认得她就可以了啊!” 作者加了这么一句:真正的爱情是接受,接受以前的对方,现在的对方和将来的对方。

我看了这篇后,对爱情有了新的了解。

这是以前,现在还是将来的画面呢?

这是以前,现在还是将来的画面呢?

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22 responses to “过去,现在,未来

  1. awww.. so sweet. haha. 美丽的爱情,可与不可求! =)

    and how did u manage to get the picture into such a frame and wordings below??

  2. Such a touching story! I always marvel at the sight of old couples holding hands when they’re outside… That’s wat love is all abt, isn’t it? Holding on to each other till the end…

    LOVE IS IN THE AIR! =)

    Love,
    Delphine

  3. I like the story very much…
    It is a meaningful story n just as what we have for our life…
    Pass…Present…Future…
    I also hope that I have someone to hold my hand like that ^^

    Support Joanne everytime~

  4. 沒有人能預測,現在的他,在將來是否依然,當“我愿意”那一刻,是不是對未來的他,下了一注?接受對方,不代表要容忍,但兩者又是灰色的地帶。。無論如何,愛是盲目的,只要還有那絲絲的愛,就是那不離不棄的表示!

  5. Hi Teddi,

    WordPress has a tool which allows bloggers to include captions with their pictures. 🙂

    Joanne

  6. oh.. icic. didnt know abt that. i seldom upload pic in my wordpress. haha

    and what with that formal saluation!!! so distant LOL.
    Hi Joanne. 😛

  7. 让我想到Nicholas Sparks的小说呢~
    看了书和电影哭得稀里哗啦的 😦

    AtelierGal
    http://blog.pixnet.net/AtelierGal

  8. wa… so sweet and touching lors….erm..did you recieve the email tt i sent you? how come you never reply wan? *sob*

  9. Hiya.. I always believe never let the past be your master but be your teacher for your present. Some of us fall into self-pity and go into the ‘if only situations..’

    During my courtship days (now my hubby..). I told him I appreciate his sharing about his past… I promise not to penalise his honesty but instead I’ll appreciate and love his present and look forward to our future.

  10. i love to read your blog. esp this post, is so sweet and meaningful. i learnt something new too. =)

  11. melissa miss j0anne

    wah joanne jiie..soo touching seh..hmmm..free do drop by my blog too ok..
    pandaxiiao-loves.blogspot.com

    do drop me taggy before u leave..hahaha..miss u lots hope to see ya soon

    love.
    melissa meii

  12. O-zaki Simizutoro

    Hi Joanne,

    Wa the the BeachBallBabies Show is getting more excited, but

    left only 4 Epsoide to go. Too Sad Miss all the Good Shows.

    Love Joanne.

  13. 我也有读到那篇文章. 好感人~ 爱, 就是那么简单不要求回报吧… 希望我也有那份勇气去接受, 他的过去, 然后和他一起迎接未来.. =)

  14. Hi! Joanne,

    This pic is beautiful! I like this pic is natural! did u take photo this? I believe that u’re good photographer! Keep up for yr skill! : )

    angeline

  15. Yes, marriage is a long-term commitment to one another and will need to compromise with one another as nobody is perfect. Wow, I love your acting but too bad the show is ending soon… 🙂

  16. love is indeed amazing. :] wonder when will i ever find someone hu love me and i love him. :[

  17. Sweety! I miss you…. i just don’t know why…. suddenly i think of you so i drop by ur blog! Stay happy always alright!You are Always in my mind too. =)

  18. 执子之手,与子偕老

  19. u lyk do handmake things??? i lyk 2 bt i do braclet n earings n necklace ony……i do sewin some times ony…..

  20. 我很欣赏这位老先生… 爱情本来就可以很简单. 不是吗?

  21. 佛家金刚金有说过 ∶ 过去心不可得,现在心不可得,未来心不可得。

  22. 嗯,好感人的故事。爱一个人就是要懂得包容他,珍惜他,就算现在的他离以前的他好远好远了。。。

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