恋爱单曲


记得不久前有个朋友跟我说他很讨厌新年要拜访亲戚朋友,因为他们总爱问的他什么时候结婚。他今年应该有三头了,不过那好像是几年前就已经开始了。

最近有不少人在关心我的恋爱曲有伴了没。哎,天啊,这不是好事啊!是因为他们觉得我年纪大了,还是我露出了什么孤独缺爱的迹象吗?而且,更巧的是,又收到了SDU 寄来的刊物。天啊!有必要吗?

身边的人就爱做媒。

圈内人老爱套一些单身圈内人的名字 (想想也就那几个),鼓励我考虑。圈外人则觉得我要的是一个对我一点银幕认识也没有的人,所以不是老外,就是刚从国外回来的。

哎哟,不是要就有的。也不是我挑剔,而是我不会主动。不过,有时就是不能做情人,只能做朋友嘛!坦白说,我不管他是谁,也不在意年纪比我大小,身材标不标准,只要有感觉,那才最重要。哈哈,说这么多,我想我应该是个很容易坠入爱河,而且还会沉到底,游不上来的人。
其实我常发白日梦,哈哈,不过至于男主角是谁,嘿嘿,以后有机会再跟你们分享我的爱情电影。

每一部戏的演出,多多少少都会谈到恋爱,而且虽然在那一刻是付出了真感情,不过是一段没有带着承诺的感情。我多希望象这样纯朴、踏实的感觉能够是现实生活中任何感情的基础。我会不会不实际呢?毕竟时间会改变一切。不过我的各人分析是如果能有这样的基础,就不怕雷雨的侵袭,感情才会持久。

我们要一起走的路可长的哦!

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31 responses to “恋爱单曲

  1. Aiyo, dun worry so much abt this, Joanne… haha. i believe when the time is ripe, u will meet the special one for u! there is no pt worrying so much or rushing to get attached now juz to show the ppl ard u ya?
    Patience patience, u r still young leh! haha. take your time to search for the special one =) i still feel its best for u to focus more on your career now ba… ha. =)

  2. wat u toking about? can pls say… sry…

  3. btw, how do u see the number of votes each mediacorp artist has? isit on the mediacorp web? how to see in english?

  4. hi joanne, i’m just another one of your crazed fans who indulges in shows you act in.
    yes love does need a certain feel between the 2 parties, if not it wouldnt be considered a real relationship, right?
    forget about others talking about the age and other stuff, age doesnt matter at all as long as it comes to love.
    anyway congrats for being nominated best actress and
    continue rocking on all those upcoming dramas and this week’s charity show.

  5. HI JOANNE!!

    I think it’s normal for friends around you wanting to be matchmaker 🙂 Now you’re 24 years old and single, think naturally they’re starting to worry for you or if not they are worried for the guy that they are recommending to you.. at times I do also tried matchmaking my close friends to some other girls but sad to say… failed terribly.. 5 attempts and none worked out HAHAHA!

    a lifelong partner is what all yearned for whilst in the relationship. When a relationship starts, first few months naturally will be always so loving and so sweet, with both wanting to be with each other every single seconds.. gradually as time goes by, friction will definitely start to appear and this is where the test comes in.. trust and patience and time is greatly required and not only love. Many broke up as a result.

    friends may recommend alot of partners, however whether or not to start depends on how you all go from there. It might be good to start off just as friends and slowly know him from there.. some times, after attempting to seek for an ideal partners from all over the place, you realised that the guy that you were looking for actually is just besides you. If the guy is really your lifelong partner, he will surely appear to you when you are caught off guard..

    hope to hear good news from you joanne, but 24 years old still young, still long way to go in your life and certainly do hope you find your Mr Right not just as a boyfriend, but 1 who understands your job commitments, respect you, at the same time love & care for you just as much as you do for him. I wish you all the best! (and also your charity show this Sunday, sorry but I can’t attend due to work 😦 )

    Regards,
    jacks0n

  6. Hi,

    I have similar thinking as you about relationship but I think that’;s very naive thinking. Because some guys can really “fake” to be very understanding, very caring but you really don’t know what’s inside his mind!!!! Scary right?

    Last time ever heard of many cases of girls so “stupid” giving their best (even body and soul and $), and all will just keep accuse/scold at the girl about her “stupidness”. but really noone will be able to understand that kind of feeling.

    I am also one of those ppl who talk/comment very easily about such thing. BUT IT HAPPENS TO ME!!! I know i am stupid but I really love that guy and even though I know he is not genuine to me but I just refuse to let go or to even confirm that he is not genuine to me when i have many chances!!!! I even willing to “suffer” in silence when ppl talk bad about him to me and talk bad about me to him (I explain sometimes but he don’t understand)!!! Really torture to love him and everything i did for him is genuine!! Stupid me, right? But LOVE IS REALLY BLIND!!!

    Everything I buy, I would think of him and give him my genuine care and concern and love!!! Even when I know he lies to me many many times and he will “protect” himself at the expense of me and will not side with me when others talk bad about me (which is not true) !!!

    To those who see ppl like me, PLEASE DON’T JUST TALK/COMMENT FREELY because you are NOT in such situation and you DON’T KNOW how the feeling is!!! Is always easy to say ppl but do think of the other person feeling, ok? WORDS CAN KILL!!!

    I really feel that MAN (even female) can be very SCARY because really don’t know what’s in their mind!!!! You trust someone when you FEEL/THINK/BELEIVE that he is genuine, BUT … I really don’t know how to let go because I really love him and still hoping that my sincerity will TOUCHED him even though i know is quite impossible (because I know…)

    If I were to “break off” with him, I will also break DOWN!!! I really feel regret and sorry that I used to comment so easily about such ppl (and I am sure others also, even in other aspects…if you do think seriously and FRANKLY about what you said or did last time, you sure ever did/say such thing!!!

    If NO, then you will be lying lor…you never say/comment about anyone why don’t continue study, why don’t break off, why don’t ….., she/he so stupid,… PLEASE THINK HOW YOU WILL FEEL IF YOU ARE THAT PERSON BEFORE YOU SPEAK (Btw I am saying this not to specific person)

    Sorry Joanne for using your blog to talk so much, I also don’t know how come and start to write so much when I read your post.

  7. joanne, can you please convert those chinese words into
    english words when you’re writing it in chinese again?
    so that those non-chinese as well as me can understand what you’re writing about, thanks (:

    love,
    jia ying

  8. joanne,ur actin is gd but i dun lyk it wen u give dose oh-my-god facial xpresion.its 2 over.mayb not onli me but others too,will not lyk it.anyway,this iz juz a comment n hope u can try to change.i wish u all the best in ur actin careeer n mayu b still s popular 20 yrs down the road n still b as popular s now.may go bless u n stay happy .i love ur smile!=)

  9. hi 勤劳的Joanne

    没有任何附加条件的爱情,是可遇不可求的。难得你在现今有这样的爱情观,你一定会找到属于你的另一半。就像“宝贝父女兵”主题曲的一句歌词一样“谁都有自己的路,通往各自的幸福”。在爱情上,希望你早日遇到自己的幸福。
    btw:昨天在新动网看到你的新闻,是关于网上有人质疑你入围最佳女主角的那篇,希望你不要让那些影响你的心情。专业评审对人选的选定,是以客观,专业的态度而作的抉择。入围是以专业角度对你演技的肯定,而不是像影迷一样主观的个人喜好。不是谁说把谁的名字拆下来就拆下来的,那是对整个专业评审组的否定。你也要有足够的自信,你的入围是实至名归的。加油!

  10. wa, ur chinese so super chim…joanne! type a translation in eng leh…i cant unnderstand…

  11. 孤单小精灵

    你那么说,感觉上好像真的有伴了哦!!!不管是不是,不过还是希望你幸福!!!

  12. hi i m a big fan of urs do u have a email add?can give my is rubie_zhen@hotmail.com pls add me kk?

  13. 哈哈,白小姐。真巧前几天我也写了单身的状况。

    一定要相形世间的姻缘月佬早有安排。您一定会找到如意郎君的。

  14. Joanne Jia you for tmr cancer show!I can’t attend because the next day which is monday got O levels 3 paper somemore lah,need to drink chicken essence LOL!

    JIA YOU WORS! U CAN DO IT DE!

    I will watch on tv! =)

  15. in ur previous post u talk about hard to gt out of your role after acting sad scene…….then in this case how about gf role?

    e.g you acted as xxx gf, or in e show u liked someone alot, are you able to get off the role?

    cos i know some artist, to cultivate relationship for the drama, they actually sort of get really during the filming period but will get off it after the whole filming ends.

    dun u guys find it hard to get off the role? after all we are all humans 🙂

    ET

  16. haha u’re online eh =)

  17. its nice to see posts that conveys messages from the writer’s honest and innermost feelings.

    whats important is to BE HAPPY and breathe every breath as if it were your last.

    love will come when you least expect it. and when it hits you, you will feel that your breath was taken away.

  18. YAY joanne jie!!

    Will be seeing you later =] me got tixxxx! YAY!

    wahhhhkahahahahaha!

    Love,
    Kim :]]

  19. yay, im going out soon to meet meiling and the others for the cancer charity show!
    JIAYOU XD

  20. I am writing this in English so that those so call Chinese Illiterate ppl can read!

    It is so cool to be able to express your feelings and thoughts and write in Chinese. Not many ppl can do that, especially in Mediacorp. They force themselves to speak Mandarin even though they dun, for the sake of their rice bowl.

    U ppl can still demand Bai Weixiu to translate into English for your sake? Who are u man! U either upgrade yourself or go around asking ppl what she is writing.

    Disgraceful bunch of ppl

  21. melissa miss j0anne

    j0anne jiie..s0wrrie din managed to g0wn d0wn t0 rg 0r mediac0rp but did watch it at h0me 0n tv..and UR SINGING WAS GREAT L0RX…s0 nice hehe..anyway yeahx..h0pe t0 see y0u so0n yeahx

  22. YAY! I finally saw uu….. 😀 You recognise me somemore…… 😀 So touched HAHAhAHA. I was so highhhhhh. Higher den you =P YAY! My camera sot diao den oni left 2 pics of uu……. The one take wif you n nicole and the other is you writing. SO sad *sobs*……… 😀

    😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀
    My camera sot liaoooo…… 😦 Damn sad. sad sad sad 😀

    Love,
    Kim :]]

  23. er…what are you sayin?im not good at chinese so srry><“””

  24. thanks joanne for the wonderful time i had yesterday.

    although i didnt really stayed back to take pictures of you yesterday cos my parents were bugging me to go home, i saw a few young jolliteers running to you and was so jealous. LOL

    your performance was great! especially seeing it LIVE. thanks meiling for your endlessness updates. i couldnt have had my most wonderful time if it were not for you

    and to joanne, you dam chio! ❤

    jareth 🙂

  25. heard that those who went to the Charity event you all had great fun with Joanne after the show… she’s still so hyper and
    happy.. regret so much that I can’t attend… urgh… wonder where Joanne gets her energy and drive from after a long and tiring day!… must share!!!!

    guys share the pics if any pls? thanks alot alot alot alot…

    rgds jacks0n…

  26. Hi ET,

    Haha, good question, if we don’t differentiate the reel from the real, then we’d be having lots of relationship issues with each drama huh?

    So far, sadness and pain has this lingering effect, but not so much love, for me la!

    🙂 Joanne

  27. sorry joanne, erm, just lend mi this space to tell Needle smthing…sorry!

    Hi Needle,
    Not picking up a fight or smthing…
    but not everyone is as good as you are in chinese,
    and others might not be chinese at all, mayb other races like Malays etc.
    its not disgraceful or anything okay?
    btw, there are 12 year old students coming to Joanne’s blog, their chinese arent tat good too…
    just commenting though…
    so pls dun reply XD

  28. Hi huiling,

    Let me apologize in advance if I may sound harsh.

    Instead of taking the easy way out by asking Joanne to translate to English, why don’t you and the other “12 year old students” use this chance to brush up your Chinese? Isn’t that a better solution?

    After all, it’s no fault of Joanne that your Chinese standard is not up to par. So, why should she be penalized by troubling her to translate her postings?

  29. Btw, i retrieved all the pics liao! Wootz!

  30. Even as a viewer, i sometimes get too “involved” into the drama…….emotion wise….haha
    So i tot is quite amazing how u guys get off it.

    probably some couldn’t and thats how they become couple in real life? hahaha..

    Probably sad and pain have a greater impact i guess…thus harder to get off it. But always remember is just frictional … hee..go do sth you like with frens and u will get off it fast.

    ai…missed the charity show >< ending of semester…3 deadlines coming up…….OMG!

  31. Hi Joanne

    I am a new friend of ur’s in this blog haha just knew that actually u blog loh…..Actually i am quite curious and amazed…
    Hmm actually really wanted to know in Media corp is it true that it is complicated and some acrtor n actress or even the staff inside they go for same sexual relationship????
    And for u if ever there is some one that likes u and wanting to try out a relationship with u even if it’s going to be a short one will be accept even if the person is a female???<- This question u can dun reply….

    Btw there r rumours on u and Tay bing Hui!!!!!

    Thanks

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